Monday, December 08, 2008

Welcome to 1st Heartbreak

The purpose of this blog is to make people aware that they are not alone in this world when it comes to falling in love and having there heart broken by that special someone.

Answer 4 simple questions and share with us how you coped with it and went on. Or if you're new to love and just had your heart broken, please read on and discover that you are not alone.

Rules: 1. No last names please, and rather have made up names.
2. No threats of harming oneself or others will be allowed.
3. Venting your frustrations is allowed so please, let it all out if you like.
4. Other rules maybe applied as I go along, not sure how this will go but trying to
design a website that allows people to share there feelings of heart break.

Question 1:
How old were you when you first fell in love?

Question 2:
What was the fondest memory of that relationship?


Question 3:
Why did the relationship end?

Question 4:
How did you get through it?




Just for fun question:
What are they doing now and are you greatful it ended?





You might be very suprised by many of the answers and hope it will help your heart to mending. Thank you for participating.

5 comments:

Cait said...

Question 1:
How old were you when you first fell in love? I was 15. He was 16.

Question 2:
What was the fondest memory of that relationship? The first time we came out and told one another our feelings. It was not complicated. It just flowed.

Question 3:
Why did the relationship end?
He was jealous and began to get controlling. And I had secretly fallen for someone else.

Question 4:
How did you get through it?
I went to god and my family and now boyfriend supported my decision.



Just for fun question:
What are they doing now and are you grateful it ended?
I guess he is in college now. It's been a year since we broke up and things didn't end well. I am very glad it ended. Not in the way I had intentioned but I learned so much from him. I'm sure if it hadn't happened the way it did I would never have the amazing relationship I do right now.

Anonymous said...

Question 1:
How old were you when you first fell in love?
I was 16.

Question 2:
What was the fondest memory of that relationship?
The first date. Everything about that day.

Question 3:
Why did the relationship end?
He didn't like that I spoke to my friends 'too much'.

Question 4:
How did you get through it?
My friends helped me through it.


Just for fun question:
What are they doing now and are you greatful it ended?
We're both still friends, don't talk as much as before but it's not that bad.
I'm really glad it ended, if it didn't I may have lost my friends and without them my life wouldn't be worth living. (:

Anonymous said...

Question 1:
I was 13.

Question 2:
What was the fondest memory of that relationship?
It was never really a "relationship" as far as i'm aware of. I loved him so much that it didn't seem like a big deal at the time that he did not have any feelings toward me back.

Question 3:
Why did the relationship end?
He just stopped talking to me. And, I was sick of these on again off again games. Only wanted me for this and that. So, I let him go.

Question 4:
How did you get through it?
I was miserable. For 5 years all I did was cry. Through the entire thing...I'm sick of crying. I wrote a lot. I did reckless things. I found my faith. It was a long process, and in my heart, there will always be a scar of my first love. But, that scar also is proof that I am stronger. I will love again.....



Just for fun question:
What are they doing now and are you grateful it ended?
He's big on smoking pot. He's hanging out with friends and getting stonded and trashed. Idk if hes going to college, or applying for jobs. & yes, I am glad I let this go. It made me miserable, turned me into a different person. I never want to be her again.

Anonymous said...

Q1 I was 13

Q2 I have only a few. The back of the metal shop building, we spoke for a short period of time. He made my palms sweat. He wanted to know if I was going to go to the dance on Friday and went I said yes, he said I'll see you there. It was like walking on sunshine.

Q3 He was murdered helping a new neighbor move into his house.

Q4 That was 1973 and I have never met anyone to this day that made my palms sweat.

He's gone and I'll never know. I still think of him from time to time. It's been years and it hasn't been until a year ago that I started talking about it. But may have been a contributing factor as to why I was so screwed up growing up. One day, I'll let the "What ifs" go.

Anonymous said...

Question 1:
How old were you when you first fell in love?
I was really young, 5 or 6

Question 2:
What was the fondest memory of that relationship?
His mom drove us to McDonald's and he bought me a cheese burger happy meal with his own allowance money. Then we went back to his place and played war.

Question 3:
Why did the relationship end?
My folks moved.

Question 4:
How did you get through it?
It never really bothered me, probably because we were so young, but whenever I order a cheeseburger happy meal for my kids I have a smitten smile.

Just for fun question:
What are they doing now and are you grateful it ended?
I heard he's living in a trailer park somewhere in So. Cal and he has lots of kids and old g/f so yeah, I'm grateful nothing ever came of it.